Fiona McArthur

Where’s Fiona?

Wednesday, July 7th, 2010

Well, that’s the question, isn’t it?

The first answer is beautiful BALI. I flew out with another midwife, my friend Vicki, at the end of May and came back in the first week of June. This is a photo of me outside the Bumi Sehat, at Ubud, Bali, of course we couldn’t miss out on a visit to a birth centre for mostly Balinese women. This centre is funded by donations and staffed by inspiring women. This was my second visit to Bumi Sehat and again I was fortunate to talk to the Australian midwife working there and also to Robyn Lim, a dynamic American lady who founded the centre. Can you see the sculpture of a woman birthing behind me at the front gate.  It gets the midwife in me everytime. (And that’s why its a large pic because I wanted you to be able to see  the detail :)

This trip we did so much more exploring and connecting with the essence of Bali. Pushbike rides, Balinese Cooking Classes, volcanoes and even stayed with a wonderful Balinese family. Fabulous, fabulous people and time and the setting for my current book. Now why aren’t you surprised.

Then I was home for two weeks, before I waved goodbye to my long-suffering husband, and flew into Melbourne to talk about the publicity for launch of The Don’t Panic Guide To Birth in September.

Watch out for me in print, maybe weekend papers, health and women’s mags, some radio gigs and maybe even a few minutes on breakfast TV. It’s very exciting to me that Penguin Australia are so behind the concept of the Don’t Panic Guide To Birth.  All good reasons to decline that cream bun just in case. Sigh.

Then it was on for a Screenwriting weekend with some writing friends to enjoy two fabulous Hollywood screenwriting gurus, Michael Hauge and Steve Kaplan before I flew home. What a fabulous weekend that was.

Then there was a heap of work, some gorgeous births I was priviliged to share, and now I’m off to the Hunter Valley for another fab Advance Life Support Obstetrics weekend with midwives and doctors from all over. Though I doubt there’ll be much time for tasting the glorious wines of the Hunter. My husband and I keep promising we’re going to go for a lazy weekend and enjoy what the Hunter has to offer. 

But then I’m home for a whole four weeks, and there’s this little matter of a book to finish,  before it’s ROMANCE WRITERS OF AUSTRALIA conference time at the beautiful Coogee Beach.  http://www.romanceaustralia.com/conference_sydney.html

I really hope to see you there.

warmest wishes for a fabulous July and I really must remember to feel my feet on the ground

xxFiona

A Silent Retreat

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

I don’t know about you, but lately I’ve been rushing around so much I’m sure I resemble a headless chook.

When the opportunity came to try something to slow me down, typically,  I rushed into it, and luckily it was great. I’d like to share my experience of last weekend. At a women’s retreat.  My first ever SILENT retreat!!!! Just got home!

Goodness. Well, not talking took a little getting used to, but actually it was pretty cool to just smile and nod and go about your thoughts for a couple of days.  But you know, writers have the bonus on non writers because I just talked to my notebook.

 No computers, mobile phones, or outside contact. Verbally, I only whispered a couple of times and therefore all the comments, utterances, mental discussions I had, were with myself. It’s all there in blue ink. Written gabbling. The descriptions I will share in my next seaside book. And the poems just fell out.

For the retreat, the meals were catered, superbly I might add, but vegetarian and I’m not a vegie lover, more of a meatatarian, carnivore if truth be known, but there too, was growth. :)

 We stayed in bunkhouses, basic and seven women to a bunkhouse, some woke early and wanted to shower (that would be me), some giggled, and some weren’t sure what the rest of us were on. But even that unaccustomed community was a gem I wouldn’t have missed.  And I learnt to be kind to myself. To soften.  To realise the harshness we sometimes judge ourselves with is not in fact necessary or even real. So that was cool. And a relief.  And I’ve started to learn to remember to feel the earth beneath my feet. Not just get somewhere and wonder how it happened. To be present in the moment.

Like the beach at sunrise.  I saw dolphins surfing in the waves, and stretching away sand when I was the only person in sight, I sat at night on the beach in the dark by myself (after threading my way through the silent woods with my penlight torch)  and gazed at the amazing stars with the thunder of the surf in my ears, and still felt safe.

Then there was the rainforest. Huge and beside the sea. It  had a boardwalk which was at least 500 yards long I’d think, half a kilometre of boards,  and wound under palms and strangler figs and the place where lithe lianas coil (for the Australian’s) – it’s from a poem by Dorothea McKellar that we learnt at school. http://www.abpa.org.au/Bush_Poetry/Traditional_Poetry/my_country.html

And this morning I took a three-legged stool, alone except for the forest and the forest dwellers,  and sat between three ancient figs and later, I stood and swung like the drum in Karate Kid because I’d seen someone else do it at the beach, and suddenly the tears were running down my face. I wanted to hug a tree.

We had Dharma talks with the most amazing woman teacher, Radha Nicholson from Byron Bay, you could google her, and meditation, and women’s stories and at the last we sat in a circle and spoke of what stood out for us over the last 3 days. In the end, the fact that women, through thick and thin, through unimaginable hardships and great joy, have such strength and wisdom and compassion that I felt so blessed to have been in that place. And blessed to go home to my husband who loved me. But I’ll be back next year and if anyone wants to come with me send me a mail and I’ll tell you more.

Big hugs

Fi

30th August 2010

Monday, May 10th, 2010

Had to share my news, I have a release date for The Don’t Panic Guide To Birth, from Penguin Australia. This book pregnancy has lasted exactly a year from when the simple birth guide idea first surfaced - to when I’ll see my book on the shelves. How cool is that.

I’ve had such amazing support from friends and colleagues in the birthing profession, midwives, doctors,  new and experienced mums as well as my writing mates with input, suggestions, and read throughs. So this baby has lots of input from aunts and uncles who care about birthing women. 

So now I’m on the Penguin Page, see link below, and have smiled over the ‘almost ready’ cover which I love and will share with you as soon as it’s set. Penguin have made the birth guide small enough to fit in your handbag, or maybe even a very generous jean pocket (maybe not but we’ll see), and I think the format is great. It’s retailing at $14.95, so it’s very affordable, a big thing we all worked towards, and makes it great for giving as a last minute hug to that nervous pregnant friend or relative. 

So watch this space, I’ll post my new cover as soon as it’s available.

warmest wishes

Fiona

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